Dear Alice ~ Advice from an Irish Mother

Dear Alice

Advice from an Irish Mother

Dear Alice,

My wife often talks about her “wild college days” and how she experimented sexually with both men and women. The thing is, her best friends, Nancy and Kimberly, are two of the women she “experimented” with. My wife is always asking me to tell her my fantasy, but I’m afraid because it involves me having sex with both her, Nancy and Kimberly while they pleasure each other. Do you think I should tell my wife the truth?

Pete K – Chicago, IL

Dear Pete,

Ordinarily, I would tell you to be honest with your wife, but there’s not many women out there who would welcome the news that their husband wants to shag not one but two of their closest friends. However, you’re married to a woman who has a freaky side, so she may be fine with it. You’ll be playing a dangerous game, though. Fantasy and reality are often very different. Sex is a wonderful thing, but it can destroy relationships if abused. Talk to your wife. I would suggest you establish red lines of behavior and specific rules, so that everyone is on the same page. Boundaries should be set regarding exactly what kind of sexual shenanigans will be going on. You don’t want to be sticking it in the wrong hole, Pete.

Alice Gibney - Dublin, Ireland